. To give you a bit of a background story. I’ve always had a huge thing for them. It’s funny how guys are expected to be all alpha and aggressive in our society, and how often people seem to send the message that they’re not manly enough or that women will never be interested in them if they are introverted and awkward. I definitely find alpha guys hot sometimes, but I’ve always been the most deeply attracted to quiet, introverted, fiercely smart, nerdy guys with just the right amount of awkwardness. I agree that too much awkwardness can be off-putting (e.g. if a guy is too awkward to even talk to me during a date), but a little bit of awkwardness can be .